Ria Beri ‘27
EE Editor-in-Chief
With the school year around the corner, the excitement to dive into classes, reconnect with friends, and jump back into activities is real. But for many students, there is also that familiar question: How am I going to manage all of this? Balancing academics, extracurriculars, and a social life is not easy, especially when everything starts up at once. That said, a few small changes in how you organize your time can make a huge difference.
Here are six ways to start the year with balance:
#1. Decide what actually matters to you.
High school offers many options. It is easy to feel pressured to participate in everything, from AP classes to honor societies, multiple sports, and community service. Stretching yourself too thin often leads to feeling overwhelmed and burnt out. Your time is limited, so treat it like it matters. Whether it is focusing on certain classes, building close friendships, or committing to a sport or club, choose your non-negotiables and let them guide how you spend your energy.
Self-Reflection: Take time to reflect on your core values and passions. Ask yourself: What genuinely excites you? What activities genuinely contribute to your growth, skills, or future goals?
Goal Mapping: Consider your long-term goals (e.g., college applications, career interests). Which activities align best with these aspirations? Quality of involvement often matters more than quantity when it comes to college applications.
The “Elimination Diet”: If you feel over-committed, try a temporary “elimination diet” for less critical activities. See if reducing commitments in one area allows you to thrive more in another.
#2. Make a weekly schedule and actually stick to it.
A lack of clear structure can lead to procrastination and feeling like there is never enough time. A visual representation of your week helps you prioritize and make realistic choices. Use your phone, a planner, or even a sticky note system to map out when you will do homework, attend meetings or practice, and hang out with friends. Seeing everything laid out helps you avoid overcommitting, and it keeps you accountable.
Time Blocking: Dedicate specific blocks of time for different activities (e.g., “Monday 4:00-5:30 PM: Math Homework,” “Tuesday 6:00-7:00 PM: Tennis Practice”). Be specific and realistic about the time needed for each task.
Digital Tools: Explore apps like Google Calendar, Todoist, or Trello to manage your schedule and tasks. Students are encouraged to use planners or digital calendars to stay organized.
Review and Adjust: At the end of each week, review your schedule. Did you stick to it? Where did you fall short, and why? Adjust your plan as needed for the following week.
#3. Study in focused time blocks.
Our brains can only focus for so long. Trying to power through hours of homework without breaks can be counterproductive and lead to reduced retention and increased stress. Don’t just “do homework.” Use time blocks (like 25 or 50 minutes of focused work followed by a break) to stay efficient and avoid burnout. It makes a huge difference when you are juggling multiple classes.
The Pomodoro Technique: Work for 25 minutes, then take a 5-minute break. After four “pomodoros,” take a longer break (20-30 minutes). This method is widely praised for boosting focus and productivity.
Create a Study Sanctuary: Designate a specific, quiet place for studying. Minimize distractions by turning off notifications and putting away your phone.
Active Learning: During your focused blocks, don’t just passively read. Engage with the material by summarizing notes, creating flashcards, or explaining concepts out loud.
#4. Choose quality over quantity in your social life.
Social pressures can be immense in high school. The fear of missing out (FOMO) can drive students to overcommit socially, impacting other areas of their lives. You do not have to be at every group hang or respond to every message right away. Pick the people who support you, recharge you, and respect your time. That is what makes a social life feel good – not how often you’re “out.”
Identify Your Core Crew: Focus on nurturing relationships with a few genuine friends who truly uplift and support you.
Set Boundaries: It is okay to decline invitations if you are busy or need downtime. Communicate your need for balance openly.
Meaningful Interactions: Prioritize quality time over constant but superficial interaction. A deep conversation with a close friend can be more fulfilling than attending a large, draining event.
#5. Protect your sleep and sanity.
Sacrificing basic needs like sleep and proper nutrition is a common trap for stressed students, but it ultimately hinders performance and well-being. It is crucial to take breaks, eat well, and get enough sleep. No academic goal is worth completely draining yourself. Do not skip sleep to finish a worksheet or say yes to something just because you feel guilty. Rest, food, water, and mental space are basic, not optional.
Aim for 7-9 Hours of Sleep: This is the recommended range for teenagers and is crucial for cognitive function and memory.
Eat Regular, Healthy Meals: Fuel your body and brain. Don’t skip meals or rely solely on unhealthy snacks.
Schedule Downtime: Actively plan for relaxation. This could be reading, listening to music, spending time in nature, or simply doing nothing.
#6. Speak up before you burn out.
Feeling overwhelmed is a normal part of life, especially in high school. Trying to handle everything alone can be detrimental to mental health. Speaking to teachers, counselors, or parents can provide support. No one expects you to have it all together 24/7. Asking for help shows that you are paying attention to your limits, and that is smart.
Identify Your Trusted Adults: Know who you can turn to for different types of support (e.g., a teacher for academic struggles, a counselor for emotional support)
Start Small: If a big conversation feels daunting, begin by mentioning your stress to a trusted friend or family member.
Be Specific: When you do talk, try to articulate what is making you feel overwhelmed. Are deadlines piling up? Are you struggling in a particular class? This makes it easier for others to offer targeted help.
Starting the year strong is not about doing everything at once. It is about staying focused, protecting your time, and making space for the things that matter, including your own well-being.
Here’s to a balanced, intentional, and memorable school year.
Feature Photo Courtesy: Harvard Summer School